Well ahead of schedule BC’s stroller was ready for us to pick up today. YAY!
We decided we might as well go and get it straight away as we WEIRDLY didn’t have anything else on this afternoon.
The lady I spoke with told me we could drive into the hospital car park as there’s a little parking bay for collecting equipment and the first 20 minutes is free.
Great.
When we arrived, BC wanted to walk in. I was a little worried about our 20 minute limit, but figured that we still wouldn’t be long and the walk wasn’t far anyway.
The lady was waiting for us, she helped adjust the chair and told me quickly (rather than showing me) how to fold it as BC decided he’d rather sit in the chair back to the car instead of walking.
The stroller is great. It’s easy to push and is comfortable. BC was very impressed.
We had a very brief discussion about the stroller, and about the process for getting a different stroller, or wheelchair that he can push himself, in the future. It sounds like the process of changing over in the future will be easy. Great.
It was so refreshing for everything to be so easy and well organised. Fantastic.
But then.
When we got to the car, it turns out that I hadn’t paid very good attention to how to fold the stroller.Not the first time a piece of equipment and a simple set of instructions has bamboozled me.
So, it took a while.
This meant, when we drove around the corner to leave the car park, we’d been there for 24 minutes.
That’s 4 minutes over the ‘free’ time limit allocation.
And they wanted me to pay $5.00.
I explained that I was only over time because I couldn’t fold a piece of equipment that I was here to pick up. The attendants were so close to where I had parked, I was surprised they hadn’t been watching me do battle with it (or heard me. I am a potty mouth when I get frustrated).
They said it didn’t matter. They said they couldn’t ‘override the system’ and asked me to pay.
I refused.
It wasn’t about the $5.00. It was because I felt a little common sense should have prevailed.
I would be happy to pay IF we’d gone to the onsite McDonalds after getting the chair (and no, I am not joking. We really do have a McDonalds in our city Children’s hospital). Or if we’d been late because I’d had to take BC off to the toilet. Even if we’d been really over the time limit because it all taken a lot longer than anticipated.
But everything had gone so smoothly up until the car. And it was only FOUR minutes.
It just didn’t seem to make much sense to me. And I really hate it when anyone turns to the mighty power of the ‘system’ that a mere mortal has apparently no control over.
They rang their supervisor who told them if I wanted to get a waiver from paying I had to drive up to the main building, park the car, take the kids out, find her office, fill in a form and ask for the $5.00 to be waived. It was already 3.30pm. If we left right then, we might miss the worst of the peak hour traffic. But not if we had to do that.
I spoke to the supervisor and laid down my case. Finally, she agreed I could leave my driver’s licence details and a phone number with the attendants and the manager could call me later. That sounded fairly reasonable to me.
I still haven’t heard from him. I am half expecting not to but also half expecting a bill for $5.00 in the mail (or maybe more – administration fees?).
So now. Home. Not stressed by a stroller that I couldn’t fold. Not facing the prospect of peak hour traffic. And realising that $5.00 really isn’t that much money after all. I feel a little silly. I think it’s very possible that I could have been in the wrong.
After all, they were just attendants. Maybe the ‘system’ would have docked their pay if $5.00 was missing. And I was after all, over the limit.
So. I need you to be honest with me. Did I overreact?
Nah. I hate this at our hospital. You have to pay exorbitant parking fees that increase with each hour. And do you think they ever run on time? They let you wait, and then you get to pay for the privilege. I think these places should have totally free parking. It’s not as if you come there for fun. And if you have a chronically ill child, you practically have to live at hospital.
It’s not the attendant’s fault, it’s the system. And the system is silly. So it deserves to be challanged – you are in Gandhi and Mandela’s company here (Ok, ok, in a snaller sense, but still…).
In fact, i think you were very reasonable. I would have just turned the engine off and sat there, holding everyone else up until they let me through. You were very nice to leave your details…
Hi Di,
I think it was VERY reasonable for you to get them to waive the fee for 4 mins over time for your reason especially. Have you got the discounted parking ticket/card for the hospital? it allows people with CA to have discounted parking.
I think a 20min zone is silly anyhow because with going to the RCH or really doing anything with a child with CP and using a mobilty device takes 20mins???? always takes us forever to do anything with the goal being independence.
I really don’t think you overreacted at all. How ridiculous having to go back to the main building again to put waiver in!?
At Westmead (at the moment anyway) we can park as long as we like with a disabled parking permit in their carpark. Maybe Melbs should take note of this to make yours and other people with disabled children’s lives easier!
I was going to say the same as Sarah – at WCH you can park for free if you have a disabled parking permit. They tried to change it in January and make us pay but a radio station (2gb I think) ‘shamed’ them into rethinking the policy. So now we can park for free again. It saves me SO much money.
You did not overreact in the least! Four minutes, and for a very valid reason? Please. The problem is that these people get jaded from listening to all sorts of excuses, I think, so even when someone has a valid excuse, it can fall on deaf ears. Good for you for convincing the supervisor!
Would you have made someone in your circumstances pay if you were the attendant? Of course not! It is not an overreaction at all